I got married in September '09. Marriage License Day was the first time I actually felt the imminentness (is that a word?) of the actual event (The wedding, not my marriage. We were together for 5 1/2 years by then and engaged for almost two years of them) because it is basically the last major requirement. I remember the irony of the entire thing. You are the two...okay, three...people most affected by your wedding, but 90% of the planning and decision making over the last 12-18 months were to ensure your guests' enjoyment. Anyway, At this point, everything is planned and if you trust in your decisions you can just roll with it. That might be easier for me to say as a guy, but still. I played 18 holes the morning of my wedding, but conversely, I know my wife and her wedding party had their share of champagne. Good luck and you 3 have a great time in Aruba.