Keep your chin up. My in laws were like that. In the end it only hurt them because only one of their grandchildren spoke to them after they became adults. I know you want to protect your family and it hurts to see them get hurt. We learned the hard way that you cannot shield them from the abuse forever. When they do find out, then it hurts them even worse than if they had known all along.
2018年 03月 12日 投稿者: Oops a Daisy
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You know what they say.... You can choose your friends, but not family. Don't you wish you could though. Ha. Redirect that anger into doing something fab for you and your family. It will make you feel better and you will get some well deserved satisfaction out of it. You know how awesome they are and that is what really counts!
2018年 03月 12日 投稿者: knovosel
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Thank you ybusch...that means so much to me! Hugs to you too!
2018年 03月 12日 投稿者: momma6224
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Thank you Oops a Daisy and knovosel! Your insight and advice is so very much appreciated! Hugs to you both!
And maxie I’ll check for it! Thanks
2018年 03月 12日 投稿者: momma6224
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Sometimes family can just plain suck! I had to deal with it with my first MIL. She always showered her great grand daughter with gifts for Christmas and her birthday but my boys barely got anything. All you can do is love them the best you can.
2018年 03月 12日 投稿者: LSG417
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knovosel said to re direct your anger and I agree sweetie how about we loin some classes for tai quan do..and some kick boxing...that will assist us with re direction and if we cant re direct then we can do some serious butt kicking...lol;)
2018年 03月 12日 投稿者: maxie4
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Haha maxie!! Again you made me laugh out loud. Let’s do it!😉
LSG417–sounds just like us...it is so hurtful. I’m sorry you had to deal with it too.
2018年 03月 12日 投稿者: momma6224
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I can totally feel the frustration.
Not that I have any in-laws or what
but my uncle is also like that.
Family members should be giving support
rather than cold shoulders
but life isn't perfect and so are they.
I really hope that you can be happy yourself
regardless of what they act or behave.
I sincerely believe you don't need them
to have a wholesome and joyful life
because you are a wonderful human being.
I don't know how to express myself
but hope that my encouragement and support
will reach out to you.
2018年 03月 12日 投稿者: leon_tsai
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leon thank you!! I really appreciate you reaching out and encouraging me. You express your self wonderfully. I’m also sorry about your uncle. And you’re right—we shouldn’t allow hurtful people to make us unhappy. I will try harder to let it go and be happy! Thank you! Have a great night.
2018年 03月 12日 投稿者: momma6224
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My Dad's mom did the same thing to me and my sisters. She didn't like his father so because of that she didn't like my dad and took it out on all of us. They will hurt but as long as both of you keep supporting and loving them, they will be fine. My grandmother died never once laying her eyes on my son. That was my choice and I'm good with that. It's her lose not mine😄 Your a good Mom to stand up for your family no matter whom it is!
2018年 03月 13日 投稿者: Proudmomma412
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Thank you proudmomma—I’m definitely not alone in this. I’m sorry you also had to deal with it. I appreciate the advice and encouragement!
2018年 03月 13日 投稿者: momma6224
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