Thank u! So glad ure in the same situation... At least I'm not going crazy! He totally doesn't understand my insecurities. As I wonder why he still finds me attractive but keeps saying that he doesn't mind e.t.c but for me it's not about him so much it's about comparing myself and me feeling he is proud of me... I know he loves me but I want to look good on his arm ..., not good on the couch with dim lighting lol! So totally get your reference to the whole jack sprat thing! I know ppl look at us and go ..., err why?! Lol!